Settle No More

Value of Money

"I hope at this point you understand the value of money."

Those are my brother's words.

Your Gift is Imagination

You are constantly dreaming. You are always thinking about what could be. You love to express yourself in many ways. You have a way with words and tell vivid stories. You love to be amused. You are good entertaining yourself, and other people find you hilarious. You're the type of person who finds staying happy easy. There's always fun to be had!

Advice for Freelance Writers

I'm going through a phase right now where I'm tired of writing. Literally, it's all I can do to update my blog and turn out client projects. It's not spring fever - that usually passes in a few days - this is something more like exhaustion and boredom (not for client ears!).

So, when freelance writing is your job, what do you do when something like this happens? Following are three things that help - until you can take that week off and head to the beach.

1. Examine the "Slump": If you find that "I don't feel like writing" feeling turning into a "I don't like writing" feeling, then it's time to examine if your slump is something more.

For each person, the timeframe for examining when it's more than a slump will be different, but listen to your gut.

Every writer goes through periods where they can't stand their computer. This usually passes in a relatively short period of time.

But, like every other profession, maybe your "writing" career has run its course. Or, maybe it's time to take your skill in another direction. Eg, instead of business writing, maybe you'd like to try fiction writing. Or, maybe you'd like to be a researcher instead.

Freelance writers may experience some sense of guilt if they find that they don't like their job because everyone thinks they're crazy - after all, you get to work in your jimmies and be home all the time. Who wouldn't love that?

But, this life is not for everyone. So, don't be afraid to face this possibility if that's what it really is.

2. Just do it: Like any other job, you just have to sit down and get to it. I can be the biggest procrastinator in the world, especially when I'm working on a project that doesn't interest me.

I will 90 different things that need my attention - except for the one that pays my bills. BUT, eventually, I plop my derriere in a chair and bang out what I need to bang out.

And, you know what? Once I get started, I usually find the inspiration to do more than is required. Sometimes, just sitting down and getting started is all that's needed.

So, just do it!

3. Work on Other Stuff: I've been wanting to update my website, but haven't had time to. I still don't really, but, I've allotted a portion of my week to working on this now that I'm in this little "I don't want to write phase."

I don't have the luxury of outright not writing, much like many don't have the option of not going to work when they don't' feel like it. BUT, I can shift my attention. As for writing, I do only what's absolutely necessary, then work on other projects.

Make these projects work related, so you don't feel like you've abandoned your career altogether. Eg, tackle marketing.

Many freelance writers shove this to the side all too often. So, if you don't want to write - for whatever reason - make marketing your priority. Submit old content to free article directories, re-design your website, send out copies of your free e-book, etc.

This serves a double purpose: (i) you get the word out about your product/services; and (ii) you get inspired when you start getting orders and/or more work from your marketing efforts.

Sometimes, all you need is a little push, a little validation to get you inspired again.

Ellie Parker On Hold

I'm taking a break first. I need to re-energize. I need to hone my skills. I need to finance myself. I will concentrate on making money first, taking lesssons, and gettong the really good roles. I don't want to waste time anymore on pointless auditions. I have networked myself enough. I will try to be in hermit mode of my actor friends. Only when there's an acting opportunity that comes up. For now, I will have to work on myself. I am done investing for other people. It gets tiring sometimes. This time, it's me. It will be me. I'm giving myself twelve months.

Waitressing

Some actors waited
I wrote

Untog

Unlike you, I am realistic.

I can't believe you want to work but you have so many conditions and limitations.

The first is personal, the other is professional.
I needed to hear those words.
Goodbye, Neverland.
Hello, sleepless nights.

Revamping

I am seriously thinking of retoxing. My body. My contacts. My closet. Everything. Let go of things and people I don't need. Lessen the given in to sweets. Control myself.

I need to be the new me. Physically. Emotionally.

Today was the preview. Tomorrow is Day 1. I have a couple of job interviews to go to. Crossing my fingers that I get those. It's about time that I do.

Too bad I would have to leave my dogs again - but that's life. This is what it means to grow up.